Important Aspects of Surrogacy All Intended Parents Should Understand

Gestational surrogacy is quickly becoming a more realistic and accepted alternative for couples and singles, straight and gay, to fulfill their dreams of family. Although it may seem like a simple process, surrogacy is quite complex. Thoroughly researching and understanding the process is essential before deciding if surrogacy is the right decision for you and your loved ones.

Why Choose Surrogacy?

Many couples and singles turn to surrogacy because it offers prospective parents several advantages as a parenting option, including at least one genetic relationship to the child and, although varied by state, surrogacy allows for a more straightforward process to establishing parental rights. Those who choose surrogacy include:

•    Women who may have trouble conceiving or carrying a pregnancy
•    Women who may experience high risk pregnancies due to a prior illness or disease
•    Women who are unable to conceive naturally (e.g. have had a hysterectomy)
•    Same sex couples
•    Single individuals

Professional Guidance & Support:

Once you have made the decision to move forward with surrogacy you will have a team of dedicated professionals there to help guide you through every aspect of your journey. These professionals include:

•    Your chosen surrogacy agency
•    Qualified legal counsel
•    Doctors, Clinics and hospitals
•    Licensed psychologist

Working with qualified professionals helps to avoid any legal or medical complications and alleviates unnecessary stress and anxiety.

Finding the Right Match:

The relationship between you and your surrogate mother is the foundation of your surrogacy experience. Therefore, it is important to establish in broad terms, a clear understanding of your expectations of the relationship between you, your loved ones and your surrogate mother. Clearly defining your expectations of your unique surrogacy experience will help in finding a surrogate mother who best suits you. The following are some topics to consider:

•    What type of communication do you wish to have with your surrogate mother before, during and after the pregnancy?

•    If you choose to continue communication with your surrogate mother after birth