Finding a Surrogate Mother and Establishing Good Communication

Finding a qualified surrogate mother who will be responsible for carrying and giving birth to your child is not a simple task. At The Surrogacy Experience (TSE), we understand the importance of finding a carrier who is not only both mentally and physically healthy, but who also shares similar views related to the surrogacy process. We focus on creating a strong match by outlining each individual’s personal needs and expectations and building a successful relationship between you and your surrogate mother based upon mutual trust and effective communication.   

At TSE we believe finding a surrogate mother who best matches your needs starts with good communication. The better we understand your surrogacy expectations, the better we can match you with a surrogate mother candidate who shares your views. Having a similar outlook will help make the entire surrogacy process a more enjoyable experience for all those involved. Some of the topics we discuss are:

·         What type of communication do you wish to have with your surrogate mother before, during and after the pregnancy? Will the communication take the form of visits, phone calls, pictures, or do you wish for no communication at all after the child is born?

·         If you choose to continue communication with your surrogate mother after birth, how often will this take place? The choice is yours.

·         Your feelings towards certain medical decisions you and your surrogate mother may encounter, such as multiple embryos, selective reduction, and cesarean section.  

Clearly defining your desired expectations of your unique surrogacy experience will help us in finding a surrogate mother who is best fit for you.  Establishing a relationship based on good communication will help ensure that all parties are in agreement. For more information please visit The Surrogacy Experience website or call 1.866.264.7211.