The Importance of Finding a Surrogate Mother

For many women, the process of finding a surrogate mother may seem like a daunting task. There is a lot riding on the match between the intended parents and the surrogate mother to say the least. This woman has the extraordinary job of being the carrier of the intended parents' unborn child. At The Surrogacy Experience, our mission is to help build this relationship between the intended parents and their surrogate mother so that it is based on mutual trust and respect. We feel that this will help to make the entire surrogacy process go smoothly and successfully. 

 At the Surrogacy Experience we have developed an effective process to aid intended parents in finding a surrogate mother who will be their perfect match. Before this process begins we pre-screen a number of women so that only the most qualified candidates are in our system. Then we begin by having a meeting with the intended parents to discover what they are looking for in a surrogate mother. We work with them to create a personal portrait and an intended parent profile. Afterwards we then begin meeting surrogate candidates. This part of the process may take some time because it is important to find a candidate that the intended parents feel comfortable with. Once the intended parents find a match we will help them to create a formal surrogacy agreement with the surrogate mother. 

Again, it is a crucial part of the surrogacy journey for both the intended parents and the surrogate mother to feel comfortable with each another. Feeling comfortable will make it easier to discuss the type of relationship you want to have with each other in order to avoid misunderstanding later in the process. It is also common for intended parents and surrogate mothers to change their views on this as they often become closer as time goes on. Overall, do not let the idea of finding a surrogate mother become overwhelming. We at The Surrogacy Experience will walk you step by step through the process and help you to find the perfect match!